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Profoundly deaf since birth, Stephen Hopson is a former award-winning stockbroker turned motivational speaker, author and pilot. He works with organizations that are ready to explore and overcome adversity because no one is immune from it - adversity does not discriminate. His professional speaking services, Obstacle Illusions, include fun and passionate presentations, especially the story of how his fifth grade teacher forever changed his young life with THAT’S RIGHT STEPHEN!
You can view his website at http://www.sjhopson.com
Stephen also maintains a blog called ‘Adversity University’ at http://adversityuniversity.blogspot.com/
If you are curious as to how well Stephen speaks, listen to this audio post: http://adversityuniversity.blogspot.com/2006/05/introducing-myself-to-people-who-hire.html
January 27, 2008
Sometimes people ask me why I make such a big deal about creativity. It?s true that not everyone is, or wants to be, an artist. We so often associate creativity with the fine arts ? painting, drawing, sculpture, writing ? that we forget how much creativity enters into every aspect of life. Creativity isn?t just about the production of works of art. It is even more powerful as a means to trust, access, and express your intuition and your inspiration.
Here are ten of the most significant benefits you get from allowing your creative energy to flow. The list is truly endless, and, from this humble beginning, you may be able to see countless more. As you begin to see creativity as this powerful and natural flow of energy, you?ll see what a creative spirit you can be. Creativity is within all of us, ready to enrich our lives when we open ourselves to it.
1 ? Creative endeavors are relaxing and restorative. As opposed to shadow comforts, like television and hot fudge brownies, creative endeavors focus your attention and connect you with what you feel inside. Activities that you feel deeply connected to are much better stress relievers than activities that numb you.
2 ? Creativity teaches you to accept imperfection. Artistic endeavors come from a part of your brain that is intuitive, sometimes disorganized, and extremely subjective. By allowing your creative spirit to play, you accept that some things you do will be better than others, and that some things will end up in the trash. But other things you create will startle you with their beauty and power.
3 ? Creativity calls on you to take risks. When you?re creating for your own pleasure, and don?t have to worry about judgment, you can try new things. You can scribble or write gibberish. You can play around with new techniques, or conduct grand experiments. You can put your vision onto the canvas or the page, and if it doesn?t work out the way you planned, who cares? Letting your creativity flow may not feel safe and familiar, but it is exhilarating.
4 ? Creative work teaches patience. If you try to rush art work, to meet a deadline or because Nightline is coming on, you lose your creative flow. Creating from the heart takes time: time to listen, and time to let the work evolve. I?ve allowed some pretty impressive art work to be ruined because I was in a hurry. Without patience, you lose respect for your creative process, and for the work you are creating, and that work almost never ends up being something you truly love.
5 ? Creative endeavors teach you that you can?t please everybody, so why try? The creative flow demands that you do what feels right to you, no matter what others might think. Everyone?s taste is different. You learn to trust your own instincts, and ignore the opinions of others. Not everyone is going to love what you create, and that?s perfectly alright. Work that is made to please everyone isn?t art.
6 ? Creativity helps you find your own vision and your own voice. As you learn to follow your inspiration, you allow yourself access to your essential truth. You express things that you might never before have expressed to another person, and, over time, you develop a clearer sense of yourself. Art can give you the courage to speak out, be bold, and shake things up. And when you respect your own opinions, others will, too.
7 ? Creative work keeps you young. When you?re immersed in a creative project, your brain is humming and your juices are flowing. You?re exercising your brain and increasing the chemicals in your body that calm and heal you. Just like stress can age you, by creating wear and tear on your system, being involved in creative work that you love can relax your body and heal the damage.
8 ? Creativity connects you with others. When you do choose to share your creative work with others, they receive the gift of knowing you just a little big better. And connecting to your own creative flow allows you to appreciate more deeply the creative inspiration of others. Knowing yourself better brings you to seek out other people with whom you really click, and with whom a deep connection is possible. And spending time with other creative people?in classes, at galleries, at craft shows?brings out your own creative flow even more.
9 ? Creative energy makes you better at everything you do. Regardless of the job in front of you, having access to your creative energy enables you to think outside the box. At work, you can trust your expertise and instincts, working more efficiently and effectively. At home, you can use your insight and wisdom to deepen your relationships. You can make sound decisions by following your gut. And you have the courage to become more involved in activities that have deep meaning for you, Whether you choose to invest energy in a hobby, a class, spiritual matters, or political activism, you have the ability to be more vibrant and more invested.
10 ? Creative work is a way to happiness. You?ve probably lived long enough to know that happiness doesn?t come from big houses or fast cars or the latest gadget. Happiness doesn?t even come from other people. Happiness rises from inside of you when you are feeling integrated and connected with your surroundings and activities. Happiness comes along with the creative flow. In fact, when it comes to creative activity, if it doesn?t make you happy, don?t do it. There are too many things in the world that you can and do love for you to waste time on those that you don?t.
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Lynn Marlow is a psychologist and life coach who has been working with and trusted by individuals at every stage of life for the past 20 years.
Creativity is one of Lynn’s passions, and she expresses herself in many ways, in her writing, her garden, her website, and, most notably, in fused glass (http://www.marlowglassarts.com). Her work boldly reflects her colorful, playful, and dynamic spirit.
Lynn values connection with self, others, work, community, earth, and spirit. Her holistic approach to coaching flows from her deep appreciation for how the emotional, mental, spiritual, and physical interconnect. Lynn believes that peace and happiness come from knowing yourself, feeling and expressing your emotional truth, having meaningful connections to people and activities, and moving through life with honesty, integrity, courage, and a sense of humor.
To learn more, or subscribe to her newsletter, visit her website at http://www.creativityunbound.com.
October 25, 2007
All my life, creativity has played an enormous part - as a child I imagined my way through story after story, and also wrote stories of my own. I was 12 when I wrote my first film script.
Thinking has been another favorite form of creativity - though that came later. But I have come to believe that thinking creatively is one of the highest forms of creativity. New connections. New thoughts. Going where most others somehow or other have not gone - too afraid, too ready to stay within what they’ve been taught to think, too lazy, too rigid. Amazing.
The forms of creativity I’ve been most drawn to have changed. Once I imagined I’d become a novelist - but the novels did not come. Then one day, lots of creative thinking done, and pretty sure that thinking and teaching what I thought would be the center of my life, I woke up with things I called ’songs’ in my head. Words, music - but not the traditional song structure (verse, chorus, bridge). The ’songs’ expressed a moment, a feeling.
I had found my strongest creative home. More and more kept pouring out. Instead of start stop creativity, it was ongoing. What a pleasure, and also a puzzle. How to get all this out into the world. My lifeling puzzle, conundrum, trouble, hardship, heartache. Who wants what I have to offer? How can I find those, reach those who would want these things, love them even - as in teaching I had finally found people who wanted much of what I had to offer, in my thinking, favorite books, and so on.
But even aside from the desire to reach people, I had another longing. I still hankered after story-telling - and soon I was linking the word pieces (as I called my songs in my head) into stories.
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One thing still remained. This has been my biggest lifelong block - mine and my father’s before me. Finding an outlet for my creativity - for all of me actually. I cannot remember ever having an easy time reaching others.
As a child, I was shy. Big eyes, big dreams, lots of reading - and one play put on, after three years of trying. One performance, in the basement of friends of my parents. Only a tiny audience.
How does one get one’s work out into the world? How does one get others to listen to what one has to offer?
It hasn’t been easy in any part of my life.
When I got degrees that, a few years earlier would have opened doors to fulltime university teaching, the doors were shut. I would have had to move thousands of miles away. It took years to find stable college teaching.
What a pleasure it was, to find teaching, first parttime at university, and then finally fulltime at a local college. At long last there were people (students) who often valued what I had to offer. Such an amazing thrill. And there was the additional thrill of meeting these people, what they had to offer, learning from them. ONgoing learning and interchange.
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But the creative stuff kept on having very little outlet. There were developments. Lots.
For one thing, just as I fell into song-writing, I fell into writing a story about a preteen girl, Caro Caroline and a ghost dog, Fluffers.
When I had a few chapters done, I moved onto the next step. I spent hours at the library, researching who might be most interested. I checked out the most promising publishers on the web. I ended up with seventeen.
I wrote a cover letter, and sent sample chapters to all seventeen.
Two almost took the book, then didn’t.
I agreed with the rewrites suggested by the second publisher - they felt right to me - but it was a rejection I got, not a request for rewrites.
It’s easy to get tired, to give up for a while.
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For years, I’ve also spend time developing Zee’s Cafe Cafe, a virtual cafe for spoken word and music artists, as well as for my stuff. A big project.
Two drafts. The second was a fully developed same site.
I hunted for grants - and over and over I got none, though I did get a couple of very positive rejections. But in the end it’s a rejection. I was once more on my own.
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I was making some connections, some with people who came into my life for a while, a few others with people who have stayed in my life, even when I had no time or energy for the project for a couple of years. I am thinking of two especially, and of quite a number of others who have also brought things.
Now, with this site, I think I have found my way - my own skipping rope.
When I was a child, I was from an outsider group where I lived. In recess and at lunch time, when the skipping ropes came out, lots of little girls did not want me skipping with their groups. But when I had my own skipping rope, lots of little girls would always play with me.
This is my skipping rope.
And just as when I was a child, I do not want it just for me. I do want it for me of course, but I know there are lots of others who want to play with this skipping rope.
How did I get to this skipping rope? I have, over the years, learned a new language, the language of the web. In part for creative projects, and in good part for a business project.That’s how I learned the creative side.
But how does one get one’s creativity heard? For that has been my lifelong block.
Someone I’ve known for years, someone who’s taught at my college for at least as long as I have, created (with a couple of othher people) a fantastic skipping rope - a skipping rope to teach people who to be visible on the web. The most amazing thing is that his skipping rope isn’t one he and his friends wanted to hoard, keep to themselves. Instead, they wanted to share it with anyone who wanted to use it. Of course there was a cost. But it was absolutely minimal in comparison to all it offered.
That has been the final piece to the jigsaw puzzle. And now you see the puzzle - one of those complex things with over a thousand pieces.
In this case, the whole puzzle wasn’t created and then neatly cut. So many of the pieces have been created over time.
And now I have sat back, asked: how do I best put out into the world all I want to get into the world? The spoken word pieces? The Fluffers Book? The idea pieces? The space for everything else.
This is the entryway. Not everyone wants to go through every door. The doors are clearly marked.
Take your pick. I hope you find it at least as much of an adventure as Alice venturing into Wonderland.
And over and over, it’s not just for me - though I am starting from my works.
On the virtual cafe, Zee’s Cafe Cafe, there is a place for all alternative word and music people to link their stuff. There is also an open mic place, where it’s first come, first served, with the next time for listings posted. Plus there’s place for invited people. And also of course for me.
There’s the start of the book I’ve written. There will also soon be space - opening pages - for many writers to post their opening pages. And for those who want to post more, there will be Page After Page.
For ideas, there’s The Idea Space. There will also be Other Ideas. (If there are problems - hate ideas, etc, it will take time so stuff can be read before it can be uploaded).
And then there’s the Love Line - love anger hate and every other emotion going on inside and between people. There too there will be space for Other Love Lines.
It’s not all there yet. This is the start.
Welcome to the first flash in the pan of
Elsa’s word story image idea love hate anger music and all round creative space.
A lot has been cooking for a long long time.
A lot more is on many burners, mostly slowly staying warm, the spices having had ages and ages to really get into the food, to flavor it fully.
As always, welcome into my world.
signed,
Elsa
May 24, 2006
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Elsa Schieder, prof, writer, visual artist, thinker, performer.
Website:
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All my life, creativity has played an enormous part. The magic of story, music, idea. Here, there’s space for many forms of creativity - yours (soon) as well as mine. There are areas for ideas, and for many forms of creativity from a preteen novel to spoken word to a blog.
October 24, 2007
Lots of things other people find fun, or anywhat seem to find fun, make me want to run away screaming.
‘Having fun’ - chitchatting, this and that, having a long meal, savoring everyday things - most of the time I am bored out of my tree, even when the food tastes great, when the flavor is just right.
As for talking about meals one has had - I can remember taking part in lots of conversations about that - and every now and then it’s okay. But most of the time I would rather walk away.
Maybe I am going on about the boringness of everyday life because I have been spending a lot of time with my partner’s mother, who is kind and caring and loving - but talks an enormous amount and also focusses a lot on food. But that isn’t the only reason.
All my life - all my adult life anyway - I have spent a lot of time trying to get away from the boringness of the way everyday life is usually lived.
I endure that life when I have to.
I do not enjoy it.
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What do I enjoy?
I am sitting under trees in a quiet spot. no one is talking. no one else is around. I am not bored.
I could sit here for ages and not be bored. I feel the breeze. I feel myself relax. I feel my crabbiness lift.
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That’s something I didn’t even think of mentioning - my crabbiness. I have been in a lousy mood a lot this past while - always on edge, ready to turn sour.
No water in my well - nothing to draw on.
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People often ask me, when I tell them of days alone at the country, ‘How do youy manage? Aren’t you lonely?’
Sometimes I do get lonely, long for closeness - but often it feels good to be alone.
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Where am I heading? Creativity does not feel boring to me - writing, drawing, rehearsing, going over creative stuff.
But alone, I do get stuck - especially when I am trying to edit something, to decide which way something should go.
Then I need someone else.
But not someone to chitchat with, someone who intrudes with everyday chatter.
I need someone with the capacity to see my stuff, to see it often better than me - or with fresh eyes, anyway.
A little bit of good input, and I’m off, ready to go on on my own.
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Philippe, my partner, is good with that - and getting even better - because he used to care that his suggestions were taken - and now he knows I care very much to get his input, but that it may and it may also not work for me - but that however things go, I value his input.
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All of a sudden his mother flashes into my mind, chattering and chattering away - saying deep stuff about herself sometimes, going off somewhere else, saying other stuff, usually stuff she’s said before, running off somewhere else - but in general not paying attention to what is going on in me.
Perhaps worst - I don’t have any sense that my being there changes things in her, that she gets much from me.
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I have worked very well around her this past week. I have focussed on my creative site, on page after page, on picture after picture, then revising page after page, trying to figure out the way the pages should look.
But I have been at the edge of crabbiness - and that makes me very aware of my lifelong recoil from boredom, from things I find painfully boring.
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How does that relate to creativity? My sense is that the boring is the enemy of the creative, that enduring boringness suffocates creativity (mine, anyway).
I have been taught not to be rude - and there are all kinds of times when I find it hard to cut off when I find a contact deadeningly boring - especially as I fear hurting people
A bit strange actually, to fear so much hurting people - to have the sense that they are very delicate.
And I wonder now - are you (whoever you are, reading this) wondering if we could find each other interesting? Or are you thinking of all the times you have been painfully bored? Or did you recoil in dread, sure that you would be found boring if we met?
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It’s not just recent, by the way, my experience of much of the everyday as boring. It’s been that way since childhood. I hated parades. Boring. Later there were parties where getting drunk was supposed to be fun. Boring. Putting on nail polish. Boring. I needed more - ever so much more. Things like creativity, thinking, figuring things out. Brain candy. Yeah.
The image that comes to mind is a puppy being on a short leash. No fun.
Then off and running. Now that is fun. Using my mind, stretching it, being creative, imaginative, solving problems. Yeah.
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There are many people I enjoy being with, by the way. Around them I feel free.
As always, welcome into my world.
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For more of my world, come visit Elsa’s Creativity Blog - blogs on creativity, the creative process, the comings and goings of the creative drive, and more.
And for something different, here’s light fluff which I didn’t find boring to write or bring to life. Talking about eating chocolate - that wouldn’t attract me. But White Chocolate and Hot Fudge Sauce - words, beat, music with … the Sexe-Tetes, a couple of women friends and myself. That was fun.
However, it did all relate to boringness as well. I had been giving a hand to a songwriter who just couldn’t come up with images for a song. In a couple of hours, loads of images popped into my mind. He kept wanting them later and later in his song - in other words, any images seemed too much, too soon.
I went home - and the lid came off my mind, the images flew all over. In ten minutes I had written White Chcoclate and Hot Fudge Sauce. Down by the beach and the ice cream shack, soft ice cream with a chocolate wrap, mocha flambe, banana split, do you want to come for a skinny dip?
Come click, come savor. White Chocolate and Hot Fudge Sauce delivers flavor. Flavor, another word for aliveness, like creativity.
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September 23, 2007
I joined my choir 2 years ago ? it was always going to be a challenge as I don?t really read music and I certainly can?t ?sight sing? (i.e. see the note on the page and sing it correctly). But technology allows me to use a discreet recorder at rehearsals and I listen to CDs of the pieces; add to that the fact that I have quite a good ear, and have through my other musical exploits gained a fairly good sense of rhythm and I get by.
But this time our directors have chosen an extraordinary programme of works. We pride ourselves on not being run of the mill, on tackling unusual pieces and not just going for the populist choices. Well, they?ve excelled themselves and we have a programme that even my very musically intelligent colleagues tell me is extremely challenging. And soon we shall perform it for an audience of between 100 and 200 people.
I have soaked myself in this repertoire for the past 6 months ? listening to the music whilst working at my desk ? recording little sections and playing them over and over ? I?ve even asked my partner to play extracts on the piano to help me fix the notes. I want to sing it all really well, yet I know, as the day approaches, that I may be not quite good enough. I shall of course take part and I shall occasionally mime (!) ? it?s also likely that I may sing some bum notes too. Oh Dear! I want to do it fabulously; I want to sing clear and true. I suppose part of me wants to be the one about whom the others say, ?stand next to her, she really knows what she?s doing?.
This throws up for me an issue I come across all the time in my work with clients. ?I?m not good enough.? It seems like we?re all just waiting for that moment when we?re exposed as frauds.
When a client presents me with this statement (i.e. most weeks) we usually send some time looking at what ?good enough? actually is. Often it turns out that ?good enough? is what they are already, but what they want to do is excel ? be the consummate professional, never falter in anything they do. This expectation can be a way in which we set ourselves up for failure. Hey, don?t get me wrong; I?m not suggesting for a moment that we shouldn?t set ourselves goals which take us to the top. Of course we should. But there has to be an acknowledgment and appreciation of where we are now, and then it is possible to see the journey from here to the place we want to be. Maybe we?ll decide that where we are now is fine, and in fact it is ?good enough?, maybe we?ll be mad keen to get to that place of exemplary whateverness.
Right now, I think maybe I?m (almost!) good enough, and that I?m doing a lot of things right. By doing more of the same and maybe cranking it up by spending an extra couple of hours a week practicing I can head towards a level that will feel good (enough) to me.
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July 20, 2007
In the height of Summer, in grocery stores and farm stands all over, we see corn and green beans and zucchinis and cucumbers and peaches and blueberries and cherries and watermelons and cantaloupes. These beautiful fruits and vegetables are perfect physical examples of what can come into existence when a seed is planted with intention into fertile soil and nurtured to grow.
So what has become of your planted thought-kernels? Did they come to fruition like the wonderful summer fruits we are now enjoying? If yes, then you, like the farmer, have supplied that kernel with supportive sunshine and rain, weeding out doubt and negative, contradictory thoughts. Congratulations!
But what if your thought-kernel has not manifested yet? Did you mentally dig them up to see how they were doing? Did you dig them up with impatience? Did you dig them up with doubt? Did you dig them up with conditions? Did they fail to sprout due to neglect?
Don’t worry. There is plenty of time for a good fall harvest. But let’s take a look at what is going on.
One reason we do not demonstrate our desires is because we are always checking to see if it happened yet. We focus too much on the fact that the demonstration has not occurred yet, thus building impatience and doubt. Where is it? Where is it? Where is it? becomes our mantra, instead of a more constructive mantra such as: It is here. It is here. It is here. The seed must stay in the fertile soil of your mind. Don’t dig it up to see if roots have sprouted. The farmer lets the sun and soil and rain do its work, while physically seeing nothing on the surface of the land. He trusts in the Laws of Nature. He is patient and allows the Law of Growth do its thing. He prepares his silos to hold his harvest. He pulls the weeds that might crowd out his crops.
In the very same way, we must trust in the Law of Mind. We must allow the Law to do its work. We must believe in the end result even while seeing nothing on the land. We must prepare for the demonstration. If we wish to demonstrate a new car, we must prepare by finding a place to park it. If we wish to demonstrate greater wealth, we must prepare by setting up a bank account. We must eliminate negative thoughts and beliefs that contradict the new consciousness (crop) we are establishing.
Another reason we might not be demonstrating effectively is the opposite of always checking for the outcome, and that is: forgetting to stay in the new consciousness and just dropping back into habitual attitudes, beliefs and thoughts. It takes some work to stay in a new consciousness. If we just go on auto-pilot, we will only get more of the same. Which is not in keeping with wanting new experiences. ‘Acting As If’ helps us stay in that new consciousness. This forgetting or neglecting is like letting any and all other plants overrun your garden. You took the time and made the effort to plant your garden. But if you let wind-blown seeds and the neighbor’s groundcover take over that area, there is no room for your chosen plants to grow.
Plant your thought-kernels with a Seven-Step Treatment. Allow the Law to do its work. Have patience and trust that your kernel has all it needs to sprout and grow, even if you do not see it. Stay in that new consciousness by weeding out doubt and negative thoughts. Prepare your silos for the harvest by knowing you have set the Creative Process in motion. Then sit back and enjoy your fruitful, delicious harvest!!
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Tina Montalto is the founder and president of Conscious Kernels, Inc., an ePublishing company specializing in New Thought spiritual eBooks, audio books, eCourses, and music located on the web at: http://www.consciouskernels.com. She is the author of ‘You are What You Think’ available for free at the company?s website. She has also created and serves as instructor for several eCourses on Spiritual Mind Treatment also available at the website. In addition to providing a selection of original eBooks, Conscious Kernels offers a free monthly eNewsletter, a community-building discussion board, spiritual retreats, and e-greeting cards.
May 21, 2007
Imagination is precious. As children we play with the box the toy came in, long after the toy has been discarded. As we grow older the education system grinds this imagination down, adding pressure to succeed and taking the fun out of being young. Release from this is sought through computer games, but these are the creation of other peoples imagination.
I had a conversation with a teacher recently, who was complaining because her rigid instructions on what to put on a Mothers Day card hadn’t been adhered to by one of her seven year old pupils. The little girl felt she’d somehow ‘got it wrong’, and ended up not giving the card to her mum because it wasn’t like all the rest.
Everyone’s imagination is vivid, but it can be shut down by adults who believe it’s their job to control instead of guide their charges.
With this in mind I asked a couple of children to give me the subject for ‘a story’. They looked at each other and gleefully decided on ‘fish guts.
Then they chose the names of their characters.
?Mildew’ and Mustard? they said, and looked at me expectantly. ‘Don’t look at me’ I said. ‘It’s your story.’
This is what we came up with.
‘Mildew is the smelliest brother in the world’ thought Mustard. ‘His feet smell, especially when he sticks them in my face. And he hasn’t had a bath since he started to walk!’
That was seven years ago.
Mildew sat in his room, counting his fish guts. He arranged them in smells. Smelly, very smelly, and drop dead smelly. He had plans for these guts, and kept them in a special ‘gut box’. It had a glass lid so he could keep a check on their progress.
His sister would go off like a fruit bat when she found them in the hood of her jacket.
It does seem mean, but Mildew reckoned his sister deserved it.
Mustard loved hot food. That’s why everyone called her Mustard. She put chili’s on her corn flakes, pepper on her ice-cream and mustard on everything else. It wouldn’t have bothered Mildew, except she put something red hot in HIS food when he wasn’t looking.
Last night Mildew had a drink of black currant juice. He swallowed twice before his tongue did something completely new. It exploded and blew a hole in the roof of his mouth.
Mildew found his voice, hiding in the fridge rubbing itself frantically against a packet of frozen peas.
‘MUSTARD!’ He screamed.
‘Yes Mildew’ smiled Mustard sweetly. ‘Oh, I quite forgot! I juiced a hundred of those nice little Mexican chili’s and poured them into your juice bottle. I hope you don’t mind.
She feigned horror. ‘You didn’t drink it did you Mildew?!’
‘The hottest chili’s in the world’ she shouted after him, ‘Mum! Mildews been drinking my chilli juice ….. Tell him not to!’
Mildew’s mouth was so hot his teeth rattled and his face was falling off. He looked at his ‘gut box’.
But fish guts were bad. After watching them mutate over 5 days he’d had second thoughts. Worms were wriggling, and the guts had turned a dizzy green. He held his breath and opened the lid, collapsing on the floor gasping like a fly hit by a litre of bugs spray.
‘That would make a dung beetle throw up’ he said to his pale green reflection in the mirror. ‘Perhaps I shouldn’t be so mean - she IS my sister’
Mildew thoughtfully squeezed a blob of toothpaste. He brushed his teeth hard, before noticing it tasted a bit funny. He didn’t have time to wonder how Mustard had managed to squeeze chili seeds into his tube of toothpaste. His mum found him downstairs with his tongue stuck to the inside of the freezer. His eyes were wild, cross-eyed and popping.
She pulled Mildew away from the freezer with a gentle ripping sound
‘Oh dear’ she said, ‘I hope that wasn’t your tongue Mildew.’
‘Of Courth idth my tong’ he shouted, leaping around looking for something heavy to hit Mustard with. ‘It’th my nuthy thithter, she’th twying to kwill me. ‘I’m goin’ du dwag her intho the garden by her pethky toe nails and pull her dorky legth off …. AND DON’ YOU TWY AND THTOP ME!!!!’
Mildew wasn?t worried anymore about putting fish guts into Mustard’s hood but, as he awoke the next morning and heard his mother scream he knew the day had gone horribly wrong. Slowly he opened the curtains and peered out of the rain splattered window…
Why on earth was she wearing Mustards Jacket.
Children should be seen, heard and allowed to let their imaginations run riot. Their future depends on it.
Rob Daniel is a children’s author, creative writing, memory and self-esteem teacher. He lives in beautiful Albany on the south west corner of Western Australia, has a passion for mangos, the Greek Islands and bringing the best out of young people.
Rob creates ‘turn the page’ children’s e-books with illustrators from around the world. You can check out and buy these books instantly from http://www.chocmint.com You’ll also find an opportunity to join the chocmint adventure yourself, if you have a passion for writing and illustrating for children.
LATEST book published ‘A Tail’s Tale’, illustrated by UK artist Elizabeth Stringer. Part proceeds from these books go towards sponsoring children at the Bear-Care orphanage in Kitgum, Uganda run by the extraordinary Murray Kidd
March 21, 2007
People are inherently creative.
When it comes to creative thinking, it’s safe to say that at one time we have all been guilty of expressing our ideas before they were ready for prime-time at some point. Often when new ideas are being formed the words that come out of our mouths have only a passing resemblance to the brilliant little lights of genius that we originally had in our heads.
Talking about the as-yet unformed little kernels of creative genius too early has a damaging effect because forcing the unshaped into shapes (pushing meanings into words) before they have matured has an unfortunate tendency to cut off significant chunks of wisdom.
A small piece of genius badly expressed runs the risk of being considered dismissible at best, at worst dismissive of the creative thinker.
Take a second and think of a time when you had a fantastic idea – one so good that your brain was racing just trying to keep up. If you excitedly began to talk about the idea too soon, somehow you didn’t get it right didn’t you? For some weird reason it didn’t sound so intelligent coming out of your mouth. Frustrated, you tried to explain it another way but somehow that didn’t work either.
In fact the more you talked the more you lost the thread of what you were saying…it’s as if the words you were speaking somehow took you further away from what you were trying to say. But you KNEW it was a stroke of genius when it was in your brain before you tried to describe it…didn’t you?
So was it a totally dumb idea disguised as a stroke of genius, or was it a stroke of genius that got dumber as you tried to explain it?
If you’re like many people, after having the experience of explaining an idea badly, and then losing the essence of the first thought, you would probably come to believe that it wasn’t all that brilliant to begin with. You’d rationalize that talking about it revealed the obvious flaws and you might have been embarrassed how stupid the idea was in the first place, and relieved you found out how dumb it was before investing money!
In the end you rationalized that what really happened was that the process of stuffing the idea into a bunch of words turned what you thought was genius into the obviously dumb idea it had been all along.
What if in fact the idea was brilliant and had been from the beginning? What if it was actually a stroke of genius but the real problem had been the attempt to define and express it before it was ready to be expressed and translated to the world of the five senses?
What if the exercise of taking a brilliant (but unprocessed) piece of thought and talking about it too early drained it of meaning…or distorted it so much the original kernel of genius was obscured and lost.
Okay so how does that happen? How can the process of communication actually distort the meaning of what it is we’re trying to say?
Words and Meaning
First off there is a huge distinction between the words we use and the underlying meaning we want to communicate.
Think for a second about how words tend to be fairly rigid containers of meaning. Words mean what they mean, but that meaning doesn’t expand far beyond the boundary of their meaning. Dogs are dogs and horses are horses.
Now think about meaning beyond words. If you think of meaning as a liquid that is poured over words streaming out of our mouths in a chain of sentences, you can imagine that when the meaning is much richer than the current vocabulary, bits of the meaning are necessarily deleted, distorted or generalized to accommodate the word flow.
So until an idea is fully formed and well-understood, the words chosen to convey it run the risk of being imprecise enough to literally destroy the tiny kernels of genius that the idea represented.
So next time you have a fantastic idea, follow these simple guidelines designed to protect your creative genius.
• No matter when the idea arrives, take a minute or two and scribble down the broadest outline, keeping it very general.
• Go back to what you were doing immediately - sleeping, cycling, walking whatever. Immediately continue the previous activity.
• Get out of your own way. Think of ANYTHING else. By preserving the core of the idea on paper, trust that it is protected. By shifting your attention to something mundane, you are allowing the internal process of genius to continue without interference.
Trust your subconscious’ ability to continue the job it started - developing the brilliant thought it came up with in the first place. You’ll be glad you did!
Hugh Comerford is an internationally recognized trainer, coach and the creator of the BEST ™ (Behavioural & Emotional State Transformation) Program.
With clients spanning the globe from all walks of life, Hugh is a true renaissance man and consistently delivers his unique blend of skills and proprietary performance enhancing technologies.
Of particular note is Hugh’s ground breaking corporate culture work, where he excels at merging cultures, building bridges, forming teams, and demystifying the unconscious processes that dominate the personal and corporate world.
Hugh enjoys analyzing, explaining, and supporting excellence through personal improvement and shares his views regularly through his ever popular blog (http://www.nlpworks.com/blog)
Based in Toronto Canada, Hugh lives with his wife Jennifer and their culture-shattering son, Jack.
February 16, 2007
Deep within each of us lies a great wealth of creative potential, and I believe tapping into this potential is the best way to solve the challenges that we encounter in our lives. Let me share a story that illustrates my point.
A lady takes her pet chihuahua with her on a safari holiday. Wandering too far one day, the chihuahua gets lost in the bush and soon encounters a very hungry looking leopard. The chihuahua realizes he’s in trouble, but, noticing some fresh bones on the ground, he settles down to chew on them, with his back to the big cat. As the leopard is about to leap, the chihuahua smacks his lips and exclaims loudly, “Boy, that was one delicious leopard. I wonder if there are any more around here!” The leopard stops mid-stride, and slinks away into the trees.
“Phew,” says the leopard, “that was close - that evil little dog nearly had me.”
A monkey nearby sees everything and thinks he’ll win a favor by putting the stupid leopard straight. The chihuahua sees the monkey go after the leopard, and guesses he might be up to no good. When the leopard hears the monkey’s story he feels angry at being made a fool, and offers the monkey a ride back to see him exact his revenge.
The little dog sees them approaching and fears the worst. Thinking quickly, the little dog turns his back, pretends not to notice them, and when the pair are within earshot says aloud, “Now where’s that monkey got to? I sent him ages ago to bring me another leopard….”
What a wonderful story to illustrate how with just a little extra thought and some creative thinking we can keep the “monkey off our back” and the “leopards at bay!” I challenge you to think differently about the issues you are facing in your life this year. Gather all the facts, be constructively discontent with those facts and do some brainstorming and green-light thinking. Then, simply write out an action plan to live a richer, fuller and happier life. Take action on the plan!
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November 19, 2006
There are few creative people who are able to pursue their artistic and creative talents whilst earning a reasonable income from just them exclusively.
Often the creative work that is most original, most challenging and pioneering, is, due to its nature, without precedent and so not immediately accepted or sought after anyway.
How many great painters do we hear of only becoming famous and respected after painting hundreds of canvases? How many novelists wrote dozens of novels - literally millions of words - before they had a book accepted by a major publisher and actually made a living from their creative work?
How many artists are only deeply appreciated after their death? And how many other artists continue to go undiscovered, patiently pursing their craft in poverty and virtual isolation?
The answer to all these questions of course an immeasurably large number.
So back to us and what we can do. How do we manage to develop and explore our own creativity whilst also putting food on the table?
Well, widely speaking, there are two ways of doing this:
Be as creative as possible in your current day job
Whatever your current employment and means of earning income, there are ways of being creative in your approach to your work.
It may be that you already work in a very creative environment and so being able to apply this approach is very easy and actively encouraged.
But whatever your role, think about all the different ways you can apply your own creative abilities. Be inventive with this, look beyond the obvious large scale creative actions, and get into tiny details.
Live each action as a creative person. Embrace your identity as a highly creative individual, and refuse to do anything in a regular dull way, from making a drink to chairing an important meeting.
If your current job is repetitive or monotonous and does not particularly tax your mind, use this time to develop your ideas and thinking. Have a small note pad in your pocket to jot down ideas then continue to formulate them
in your head whilst you work.
Find a Creative Day Job
The second option is to find a job that will utilise your creativity and help to stimulate you and inspire you in your other creative projects.
There are obvious interpretations to this idea. For example if you’re a keen photographer, seek a job in a photo processing business or a photographic gallery.
If you’re a writer, seek a job in a bookshop and surround yourself with inspiring literature and people hungry to read, or work in a local newspaper office.
There are also more abstract ways of considering this approach though. Arguably the truly creative person can take inspiration from virtually any source around them at any time. Think about what inspires YOU as an artist, as a creative person.
It could be that you paint and in particular enjoy painting coastal landscapes. Maybe a day job as a lifeguard would support and nurture this creative talent?
Or maybe you write beautiful effusive poems about being lost in nature. As a train driver you could cover miles of scenic routes each week, from expansive green fields to tightly packed urban architecture.
These are two quite abstract examples but hopefully you see the point. Think about what you really love doing creatively and all the different elements of that.
What kind of environment and surroundings support your creativity? What kind of people are you around when you’re at your most creative? What situations inspire you?
In all of these ideas, try out our own variations, experiment and find what works best for you. Maybe the best way to support yourself creatively and financially, is not as obvious as you first thought…
© Copyright 2006 Dan Goodwin.
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